Heartache

Is it possible to have heartache over someone you do not know and have never met and do not love? I wonder what makes us think in terms of the heart rather than the mind and how we respond to situations.

Do our irrational emotions control our lives or is it better to keep emotions held tight inside where they can not wreak the havoc that they are capable of unleashing? I am pondering these questions this evening as I think about the last few days and how I am feeling. The birth of my granddaughter, the seductive talk, and today the silence. What is another person thinking when they do not make any contact, or send a few words in a message after being as intimate with another person as you can be without being together physically?

I can not imagine being so busy that I could not find time to write a short message, even a goodbye you are not the one message. That would be better than being left in silence.